Oh, by the way, that KB the other day wasn't "borrowed", you guys wiped to KB, 3 pld's dead, about 12 other people dead in your LS and like 2-3 weakened people up. The thing was unclaimed and sitting there for a few seconds, so we took. There's a little difference between stealing a KB at 80% after 10 minutes and taking over a SUPER KB that a LS is wiping to after letting about 10 meteors in a row hit.
I won't touch the "Who said what to whom" issue since I don't ever get involved with that. But on a neutral note: Don't ever say to someone "You're a jerk for being racist, i'm not racist" because in honesty, about 95% of the world is racist/judgemental in one way or another- whether it be actual race or ethnicity (which are different by the way). Who cares WHY you don't like someone, if you don't like someone, then you don't like them, done and done.
Cire, Epyon didn't hack your ffxi account- sorry but it wasn't him. Sucks that it happened, being honest here but thats why you don't share info to things you don't want messed with. There are a select few people that know my login info, and if anything happened to my character i'd just quit probably, its just a game. I'd probably look internal to your problem, usually that is where it stems from generally.
Also, phear the upset letter from Cleveland, I got one once and it was NOT pretty