BUMP...if it wasn't a sticky... Anyway...
Just to chime in on this topic as a 67WHM:
I static with a RDM and have been doing so for the past 20 levels. And we both melee.
Yes, you read that correctly.
As a WHM, I take care of main heal duties, he takes care of refresh and we both split up haste duties. We've been doing it like this for the past 20 levels.
Every once in a while, we'll have someone make a snide remark at the start, but once the PT gets rolling, it's always these people that say things like,
"I didn't expect things to go so well. That's pretty crazy." or "Did you guys just Skill chain together?! Damn, that's cool!" I constantly get on the RDM's ass to upgrade their gear and farm for more gil if they want to make it in this melee business. Nothing crazy, but he has SH, Woodsman's, Specs and swaps belts depending on what he needs. I have a lot of hand down stuff from MNK (well, just the PCC, Diabolos Earring and woodsman's rings) and just recently got a Tabin Jupon and feet+1 since I cant use my Noble's yet. Like I said, nothing crazy like Toreador's Ring or Sniper's +1. We both eat either Marinara Pizza or cheap sushi if we fight birds and we have a lame tank or DDs.
One particular time in LS chat, I asked if any DD wanted to join for a Colibri camp synced to 65 and a DRG agrees to go. The PT setup was:
PLD/DNC (they were thrilled to come /DNC), BLU/NIN, THF/NIN, DRG/WAR, RDM/BLM and me as WHM/SMN (I just recently leveled up SCH and think it would have been alot better!)
At first, the DRG was very much against the idea of both the RDM and WHM meleeing and us having no BRD for songs, but still went along with it saying, "meh, I just need some quick XP anyway."
The THF would pull a bird to camp and the PLD and I would alternate Flashes to minimize damage. Hate was hardly ever an issue since the THF would promptly Trick Attack onto the PLD(unless the RDM wanted to do a 300% TP Spirits Within, that darn show off! lol ) All in all, it was a very fun experience since the DDs didn't have to hold back; the PLD got to try out their fun subjob saying, "Honto ni {Thank you.}" (since they didnt speak much english) and the RDM and I keeping our weapons capped. There was never a sense of someone going to die and no downtime whatsoever.
After about 2 hours, we disband since the RDM and I have work and/or school the next day. As I was saying my goodbyes in LS chat, the DRG sent me a /tell saying, "I'm really impressed by that PT you put together. Did you know we were making a little over 10k xp an hour?" To which I replied,
"No kidding? I was having too much fun to notice. See ya ^^" and logged off.