(Turkey)
Job well done, I don't see any of the tier 2 enfeebs listed on merits though(Dia3 Paralyze2 Bio3 Blind2 Phalanx2)I would like to know some thoughts on which spells to merit first or should I go straight for enfeebing skill to spend first merits on?
Depends on what you do and how fast you merit.
General
Generally speaking, Tier II has much higher built-in magic acc, greatly improved the resist rate and proc rate, therefore they are the most cost-effective merits.
Within Tier II itself, I sugeests you go Dia III - Slow II - Para II - Phalanx II - Bio III - Blind II, f you are getting them all.
Dia III 1st is strategical, as it helps your TP burn = faster merits
After done wth Tier II, then Enfeebling Magic, finally Magic Accuracy
(I am leaving HP/MP, Stats, Melee skills, and Others out, merit them in between for fun anytime you want !)
Merit Freak
For all you merit freaks, skill or magic accuracy don't really matter, because you rarely enfeeble in meripo. (duh)
Still, Dia III 1st and you might want to max it to 3, then after you finished all your merits, take 2 away to restructure your Tier II. (If you like it, keep it)
After Dia III, you should focus on MP merits (HP if are taru) for a larger mp pool and perfect convert
Next, get evasion up.
Then you are a perfect meripo RDM, keep on and cap the rest!
Kirin
If you are doing a lot of kirin with LS, since this is the only NM that demands some tweak in merits for RDM and we fought ofen enough, you might take another route.
Because of Gravity.
Tier II is great temperng with enfeebling other sky gods, but for Kirin, Gravity is what you need to focus on.
Therefore Enfeebling Magic merit gets the priority, then Wind Magic Accuracy, INT if you are hardcore.
Then your gravity is pimped !
Next, pimp your Bind with Ice Magic Accuracy before you go back the the general merits.
Just some random post, do whatever you want with merits,
since the best merit builds are often the ones are built upon and match your own play styles.