Aleera, on 27 September 2009 - 02:10 PM, said:
I'm not saying every girl who has turned me down is shallow, I'm saying the ones who only date the skinny, pretty boys are. More or less, the point I was trying to get across is that the women who claim they will date a guy regardless of looks but have a dating record that looks like an Abercrombie & Fitch catalog is what pisses me off. I, myself, have not had high standards but I certainly don't date the bottom of the gene pool, neither. If I was to rank them I guess the lowest I've gone was about a 4-5 and the highest was a 9? But that all depends on the persons perspectives and personal standards. Either girls in my area just have high standards or I'm really an ugly fuck. lol
Edit: I get what you're saying, Nancy, I think I'll try that out more.. For some reason I always felt bad being a dick to someone, but when you put it that way, I kinda get a feel for how to act. Thank you, I hope it works out for me. lol That was probably about the best piece of advice I've gotten for my situation.
I love love love this argument.
How about you try lowering your standards if you think a girl should lower her standards for you? Why don't you go date pot-bellied Sally sitting over in that corner at the club, I'm SURE she's a nice person on the inside, but you're just a shallow dick who wants the prettiest girl possible.
Am I right at all on this? I'm pretty sure I am, because when I hear this argument in real life, it's always coming from some overweight guy who wants the guy with abs and pecs, or the girl with the body of a model. Those pretty people are shallow assholes for working on their bodies and wanting the same from their partner, damn them to Hell for having standards!
Why don't you try working on your body if nobody pays you any attention? It's not just for aesthetics, it's also for health.