[Aleera]

Villainous, on 26 September 2009 - 12:51 PM, said:

I once had a g/f who told me, "I like skinny guys, I dont care if youre all buff"

I hear this so much. It pisses me off when women say "I don't care about a guys looks, as long as he's a nice guy/has a nice personality, etc", but then all I ever see them date are skinny fucks that later turn out to be total assholes. And they know they're assholes the whole time. Cause every woman thinks they can change a man, but in reality it just doesn't happen that way. Then you gotta hear "All I ever date are assholes, i'm so sick of it." But instead of taking a decent guy (hi, I'm right here listening to you bitch about the assholes) that'll treat her with respect and nothing but love, they go after another asshole instead. It never ends until they're 30 and their vag is dragging on the floor 5 feet behind them and they go "damn, I should've just went with the nice guy after all." lol No offense to you if you're skinny like that, I'm not calling you an asshole, but I hate how shallow women can be sometimes. It really puts me off dating when every woman I meet is like this. Maybe it's just a NY thing...

Anyways, derail aside, those shirts are fucking stupid. Erik von Markovik is a fucking retard. End of story.

[pathwriter]

Yeah, the reason they're never going to date you is because you are the one sitting their listening to them. You are deep into the friend zone and they are no longer capable of considering you romantically. Give up and find someone else to pine about, but don't give her the impression that you're one of her girlfriends because then you're pretty much out of luck.

[Deo2]

pathwriter, on 26 September 2009 - 11:19 PM, said:

I would pay money to see a girl start dripping over a dental plan. I'd probably need a bucket to be sick in if it ever happened, but I'd still pay.

*insert british joke here* /old and boring

[Aleera]

pathwriter, on 27 September 2009 - 02:57 AM, said:

Yeah, the reason they're never going to date you is because you are the one sitting their listening to them. You are deep into the friend zone and they are no longer capable of considering you romantically. Give up and find someone else to pine about, but don't give her the impression that you're one of her girlfriends because then you're pretty much out of luck.

In some cases, yes. And I admit being too far into the friend zone screws me. But a lot of times I'm not that far in and I still get overlooked. A woman can't get to know I'd be good for them until we're friends, and by the time she can realize that, we're too far gone. Unless there's something I'm doing wrong (which I'm sure there is), it just becomes exceedingly more difficult for me to find anyone these days.. at least someone my own age. c.c

[Serataru]

Yhelothur, on 27 September 2009 - 01:12 AM, said:

Actually, I think she's the one that needs to get a grip of something other than a wealthy man's penis. I've seen it plenty of times. Money talks in this day and age, and you can't deny the existence of gold diggers.

What exactly does wearing an Ed Hardy shirt have to do with a guy having money? Clearly most of the guys paying 100 bucks a pop for Ed Hardy bullshit are not going to HAVE much money left over because they blew it all on designer clothing. You act as if most guys who buy this clothing "to get laid" don't have to eat ramen for weeks to compensate for their ridiculous shopping habits. If I wanted my guy to dress like a faggot, I'd date a girl instead. Again, I am not saying that girls don't look for rich guys, but I AM saying that they aren't looking at your fucking name brand jeans. If you're wearing a pair of Levi's that make your butt look sexy and you spend the money you would have dropped on True Religion to buy her a bunch of drinks, she'd probably pay you more attention. You guys are making rocket science out of baking-soda volcanoes.

The fact is, there are always decent looking girls out there who have no standards and are looking for someone who will just stick it in. You don't need Designer clothes to fuck them.
There are always gold diggers too, but you don't need designer clothes to fuck them either, flash your money by spending it ON THEM and that will do the trick too (plus you won't look like a rhinestone encrusted faggot.)
The girls who are intelligent won't be impressed by either of these things, so you'll still have to figure out how to get their attention, but I promise you it won't be by wearing an Affliction shirt.
The girls who are intelligent and hot won't be impressed by anything you do, so you're back to square one on that, and now you'll have to explain the ridiculous reason you're wearing rhinestones to a girl who will, most likely, make fun of you for being pathetic and dressing like a queen.

So where exactly is wearing this faggot clothing going to help you at all? By doing something that for all intents you could have done the same way by NOT wearing the faggot clothing if you had any brains or game at all? Just saying.

[firefeng]

Aleera, on 27 September 2009 - 10:32 AM, said:

In some cases, yes. And I admit being too far into the friend zone screws me. But a lot of times I'm not that far in and I still get overlooked.

It's probably because you're ugly, then.

[Aleera]

firefeng, on 27 September 2009 - 11:41 AM, said:

It's probably because you're ugly, then.

I won't argue there. lol I don't think I'm that attractive. But then if that's the case, it just goes to show how even more shallow they are.

[Arkley]

Oh please. Physical attraction is a massively important part of any "relationship". Whether it's just one person asking a stranger to join him for a drink, a friend asking out another friend, or a long-term thing, it's far more important than most people would care to admit to themselves. This whole "people who won't date people they don't find attractive are shallow" thing is a load of bullshit spouted by insecure people. If someone turns you down because they don't find you attractive, it's a legitimate reason. I'm sure it's a frustrating one 'cause it's not like you can do anything about that, but it doesn't make them shallow.

[pathwriter]

Physical attraction is important, but people overemphasize it. I won't disagree that people have to like looking at one another, but entirely too many people have it in their heads that if the other person is a 7 or less, they're not worth the time or effort... unless they're rich, of course. This would be fine if the ugly motherfucker with astronomical standards was above at least a damned 5. I've met more than a few people with a grossly inflated sense of their own attractiveness and it is tiresome in the extreme.

[Arkley]

I'm not talking about people having ridiculous standards or anything like that. What I mean is, everyone finds different things physically attractive. Me? I like blonde and petite. I prefer paler skin to tanned and I'm a little unusual in that I still like "skinny" in a day and age where most guys are extolling the virtue of girls having some "meat on their bones", but anyway. It's not like I stick 100% to that particular description or that I'll refuse point-blank to date anyone who isn't blonde, 5ft3 and 100lbs (I'm currently dating a Thai-American girl and have been for some time), but am I really shallow if I turn down a 6ft5 heavy-set redhead? 'Cause I probably would turn a young lady of that description away, purely due to her physical attributes, and I don't think that makes me shallow. I've been turned down quite a few times in my life and I don't doubt that more than a couple of times it's been simply because whomever I was asking to join me simply didn't find me attractive, and I don't think that makes them shallow, either.

[1337NancYBoY]

Aleera, on 27 September 2009 - 01:33 AM, said:

I hear this so much. It pisses me off when women say "I don't care about a guys looks, as long as he's a nice guy/has a nice personality, etc", but then all I ever see them date are skinny fucks that later turn out to be total assholes. And they know they're assholes the whole time. Cause every woman thinks they can change a man, but in reality it just doesn't happen that way. Then you gotta hear "All I ever date are assholes, i'm so sick of it." But instead of taking a decent guy (hi, I'm right here listening to you bitch about the assholes) that'll treat her with respect and nothing but love, they go after another asshole instead. It never ends until they're 30 and their vag is dragging on the floor 5 feet behind them and they go "damn, I should've just went with the nice guy after all." lol No offense to you if you're skinny like that, I'm not calling you an asshole, but I hate how shallow women can be sometimes. It really puts me off dating when every woman I meet is like this. Maybe it's just a NY thing...

Here's some advice then - be an asshole. Or rather, be a dick. People like arrogant dicks because we're entertaining; we make them laugh by saying the things they're all secretly thinking or secretly wishing they had the balls to say. They key of it is - and this is how you don't fuck up your relationship with them - only be an dick to other people, never to them. If you're a dick to everyone but them, then they think they're special, because they are. To you, at least.

Another thing is, when you're being a dick, be a positive dick. Balance your statements and your actions like flipping off someone in a goddamn faggoty motherfucking piece of shit smart car (I HATE IT I HATE IT I HATE IT!!!!) or calling all Mac owners fucking borg who are somehow stupid enough to consider a computer a fashion statement, with things that are still really dickish to say, but in a positive way. Things like "You know, the only thing about Hitler that people care about is that he was racist. Nobody every considers what an excellent statesman and economist he was, or that he was a brilliant motivation speaker. It just goes to show how petty liberal culture is..." or "I love when women embrace the place our society has made for them, I think everyone should know their place." These statements are really dickish in nature, but they carry positive connotations. If all you're ever doing is bitching about things, regardless of how funny that may be, people are only going to remember how negative you are. If you bring negative feelings to a social setting, then everyone in that setting - including the girl you want to fuck - is going to start feeling negative. Nobody likes someone who makes the glass half empty all the time. They do, however, like people who make the glass half full, even if it's filled with Evil.

Comrade Taru is right in saying this shit really isn't that difficult. It's not complicated, not even a little bit. In fact, I find that most people who are socially inept fuck themselves over by thinking precisely that. People like to have their egos fed, so feed their ego (By the way, CT, Katie Holmes would be really pretty if she looked more like you... ) . Be personable, be confidant, and be forthright. Don't mince around trying to impress everyone with how much ass you can kiss - instead, impress them with how big your dick is, and how lacking of fear you are in using it.

Aleera, on 27 September 2009 - 12:30 PM, said:

I won't argue there. lol I don't think I'm that attractive. But then if that's the case, it just goes to show how even more shallow they are.

Yes, yes, every pretty girl is a shallow, petty, lecherous cretin because she doesn't appreciate what a beautiful person you are on the inside. Or maybe you just suck at showing them that yourself. How the fuck are they supposed to see into your soul to know you're nice? Oh, that's right. They can't. They can only see what's on the outside, and what they see according to you is some guy who is being super nice to everyone including them. You remember that song by Green Day? "Nice guys finish last, you're running out of gas, your sympathy will get you left behind..."

If you want to make a girl into your friend, then be really extra nice to her. If you want to make her into your girlfriend, then flirt with her in a very dickish manner. Heterosexual women love dick, and they'll love you if you're a dick.

[Aleera]

I'm not saying every girl who has turned me down is shallow, I'm saying the ones who only date the skinny, pretty boys are. More or less, the point I was trying to get across is that the women who claim they will date a guy regardless of looks but have a dating record that looks like an Abercrombie & Fitch catalog is what pisses me off. I, myself, have not had high standards but I certainly don't date the bottom of the gene pool, neither. If I was to rank them I guess the lowest I've gone was about a 4-5 and the highest was a 9? But that all depends on the persons perspectives and personal standards. Either girls in my area just have high standards or I'm really an ugly fuck. lol



Edit: I get what you're saying, Nancy, I think I'll try that out more.. For some reason I always felt bad being a dick to someone, but when you put it that way, I kinda get a feel for how to act. Thank you, I hope it works out for me. lol That was probably about the best piece of advice I've gotten for my situation.

[Serataru]

1337NancYBoY, on 27 September 2009 - 01:47 PM, said:

Here's some advice then - be an asshole. Or rather, be a dick. People like arrogant dicks because we're entertaining; we make them laugh by saying the things they're all secretly thinking or secretly wishing they had the balls to say. They key of it is - and this is how you don't fuck up your relationship with them - only be an dick to other people, never to them. If you're a dick to everyone but them, then they think they're special, because they are. To you, at least.

We can title this whole passage "Why Sera loves Lokky"

This is exactly what I'm into. I want a guy who is a dick -- and is ONLY nice to me.

[Serataru]

1337NancYBoY, on 27 September 2009 - 01:47 PM, said:

(By the way, CT, Katie Holmes would be really pretty if she looked more like you... )

you're so cute when you lie

[firefeng]

Aleera said:

I'm not saying every girl who has turned me down is shallow, I'm saying the ones who only date the skinny, pretty boys are. More or less, the point I was trying to get across is that the women who claim they will date a guy regardless of looks but have a dating record that looks like an Abercrombie & Fitch catalog is what pisses me off. I, myself, have not had high standards but I certainly don't date the bottom of the gene pool, neither. If I was to rank them I guess the lowest I've gone was about a 4-5 and the highest was a 9? But that all depends on the persons perspectives and personal standards. Either girls in my area just have high standards or I'm really an ugly fuck. lol

No, you're just a "nice guy" who hides his pettiness because he thinks he has character, save for the times when you flash your gargantuan flapping cuntlips on the internet because the women that have made you so bitter can't find you and beat the shit out of your pussy ass for maligning them. If you want to get into a pretty girl's pants by being nice to her, you're not showing her character, you're showing her yet another sycophant of the same brand that has accosted her every day of her life.

The girls who only date the skinny, pretty boys aren't any shallower than you are because you think you're entitled to an attractive woman's sexual orifices just for breathing.

[Xani]

Are you seriously debating techniques on how to get a girl to fuck you?

[Seigrith]

Xani, on 27 September 2009 - 04:38 PM, said:

Are you seriously debating techniques on how to get a girl to fuck you?

There are techniques now?

[Seigrith]

Fucking doublepost, something is wrong with my mouse or keyboard or hands or something.

[Aleera]

I'm not worried about finding a girl to fuck, I just want to find a decent girl to be with period. I've never gone after a girl just to fuck her, that's not my style. And Feng, I'm not trying to give off some sort of image that all women owe me everything cause i'm a nice guy, but nice try at berating me. Nancy gave me some decent advice on where I was lacking, but all you do is find a way to turn it all on me and make me look like some low, pathetic form of life beneath your (and anyone else's for that matter) feet just so you can feel a little better about your own insecurities and imperfections. So, whatever.

[Xani]

Aleera, on 27 September 2009 - 04:54 PM, said:

Nancy gave me some decent advice on where I was lacking, but all you do is find a way to turn it all on me and make me look like some low, pathetic form of life beneath your (and anyone else's for that matter) feet just so you can feel a little better about your own insecurities and imperfections. So, whatever.

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