Arkley, on 27 September 2009 - 06:57 PM, said:
Sitting here and reading posts by the cast of Flame Wars debating how best to attract a woman is like being part of a group of cripples who're devising a cunning plan for climbing the stairs. It's fantastic, I've never been more proud of us.
Hey, I've picked up two chicks at once by accident, so I don't wanna hear it.
And no, it's not because I thought they were really guys.
Aleera, on 27 September 2009 - 07:01 PM, said:
I'm actually very flattered you even remembered anything about me, considering I thought you to be a heartless, self-absorbed, narcissist who cared little to nothing about the people you trample on around you. Mind you, that wasn't one of my better ideas, and yeah, it probably seems childish to that well-endowed bit of man you are on the other side, and not nearly as awesome as it is doing whatever you do in your free time when you're not here all day flaming people for being "dickless homunculi" as you so delicately put it. But on my side, I care very little about what you think of me. And before you post back responding in yet another thesaurus ridden response about how I'm "doing it wrong" and that saying I care very little is a lie, in lieu of my previous attempt to flame you, I am who I am, and I'm willing to make the necessary changes to better my own life, be it taking Nancy's advice, or whomevers. So flame me all you want, call me what you will, but I'll become a better person because of it. Hell, I may even have you to thank for it, too, someday.
That's actually a really good attitude, brah. You aren't ugly, not by any means, and you aren't stupid either. All you really need to do is find your groove, your style, and the best way to do that is simply imagine the ultimate character of man - your ideal persona - and then simply pretend to be that. After a while, you aren't pretending anymore. One of my favorite quotes of all time is from the trailer for Bioshock - "We all make choices, but in the end, our choices make us." Your character may determine for the most part your actions, but your actions ultimately determine your character. If you accept that you're some girl that you want to fuck's friend, then you will, over time, become that guy with every girl. If you decide to be nice and perpetuate these sorts of relationships, then they are the only kinds of relationships you will have, or know how to have.
Alternatively, if you decide to just say "Fuck it." and start taking what you want out of relationships, and not accepting anything but what you want, then you'll be that guy - the guy who leaves the bar with the girl you like because all you could do was tell her how nice her hair was or whatever while he walked up and said in one way or another "I'm going to fuck you, and I'm not going to do so by sticking my tongue up your ass."
Serataru, on 27 September 2009 - 09:20 PM, said:
Honestly in retrospect I will take style back. Some people think that "style" includes partaking of what happens to be the height of fashion at the time. Most of the time, fashion blows.
Hell yeah. When I'm in prep mode I stick to relatively generic style that emphasize my physical attributes rather than how big my credit line is or how much of a fucking girl I am because of all the faggy shit I'm wearing. I don't want someone to fall for my wardrobe or my checking account, I want them to fall for me. I am my style.