[hideo]

It is a proven statistic, the root of most relationship downfalls are financial problems.

This post has been edited by hideo: 04 March 2010 - 10:48 AM

[Bloodwraith]

Congrats Espion

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[Doodlebug]

hideo, on 04 March 2010 - 10:47 AM, said:

It is a proven statistic, the root of most relationship downfalls are financial problems.

And getting married way too fucking young. You haven't grown up... lol Especially men xD

[hideo]

Doodlebug, on 04 March 2010 - 03:48 PM, said:

And getting married way too fucking young. You haven't grown up... lol Especially men xD

Sounds like my first marriage. An, me, grow up?! HA. Course, I know when to be a kid, and I know when not to be. =p

[Espion]

He isn't mooching. :C If anything he's pushing to move out by in October. And we don't have any financial problems. Military is out of the question, sadly. He wanted to join the Navy or the Marines if he could but a therapist fucked that up for him. :/ He had a rough time growing up with his mother doing heroine and not knowing who his own father is, there was quite a bit of arguing from what he's told me and a bunch of other things. His therapist decided to say he was suicidal and homicidal when he hasn't really had a serious thought about either of the two. Then she also put down that he was on anti-depressants when he never has been prescribed them. c_c So he's still upset about that fact, he really wanted to join the military.
He's really a good guy, he keeps me in line. xD I'd probably still be fat and sitting at the computer daily if I never met that bitch of a room mate that I had and her husband. Mr. Hubbums was the room mate's husband's best friend, so that's how we ended up meeting. He was dating some prego girl that he didn't really love, mostly because the kid wasn't his. So I stole him away. *-*

[Katoke]

Espion, on 04 March 2010 - 10:10 PM, said:

He isn't mooching. :C If anything he's pushing to move out by in October. And we don't have any financial problems. Military is out of the question, sadly. He wanted to join the Navy or the Marines if he could but a therapist fucked that up for him. :/ He had a rough time growing up with his mother doing heroine and not knowing who his own father is, there was quite a bit of arguing from what he's told me and a bunch of other things. His therapist decided to say he was suicidal and homicidal when he hasn't really had a serious thought about either of the two. Then she also put down that he was on anti-depressants when he never has been prescribed them. c_c So he's still upset about that fact, he really wanted to join the military.
He's really a good guy, he keeps me in line. xD I'd probably still be fat and sitting at the computer daily if I never met that bitch of a room mate that I had and her husband. Mr. Hubbums was the room mate's husband's best friend, so that's how we ended up meeting. He was dating some prego girl that he didn't really love, mostly because the kid wasn't his. So I stole him away. *-*

...... waT. Was the baby HIS? Also, what makes you think another girl won't come and steal him away from you?

[Aleera]

Espion, on 04 March 2010 - 10:10 PM, said:

He was dating some prego girl that he didn't really love, mostly because the kid wasn't his. So I stole him away. *-*

Katoke, on 04 March 2010 - 11:24 PM, said:

...... waT. Was the baby HIS? Also, what makes you think another girl won't come and steal him away from you?

Sherlock'd.


Anyways, Espi. I do wanna say congratulations. I was in total support of your decision for this as I know it seems to have made you really happy, but as a piece of personal advice; just be careful. After having read the last thing you posted, I don't know so much about marrying him. I'm sure he's a really nice guy, but just be aware of his past and take it in stride. Things like that can muster up over the years and come back to you in a bad way. Me personally, I would have waited a bit longer before marrying anyone so young. I'm probably one of the few guys who still believe in true love and chivalry, and probably even fewer that believe in those fairy tale/movie relationships that work out in the end. It's probably my biggest downfall because no one now really believes that'll happen because it's so uncommon and unlikely, but I still believe no matter what it can still happen. And because of that I used to jump head first into all my relationship and fall way too hard for the girl I was with, which ended up hurting me more when we ended up breaking up. I'm still the hopeless romantic type who believes I can find the girl of my dreams who is perfect for me, that understands me better than I do myself and loves me for who I am, because there's someone like that out there for everyone. And I want you to have that, because everyone deserves it. So all I'm saying is just be careful and I wish you the best of luck with his and hopefully I'm wrong about it in the end. lol <3

[Raikoh]

Aleera, on 04 March 2010 - 11:48 PM, said:

I'm still the hopeless romantic type who believes I can find the girl of my dreams who is perfect for me, that understands me better than I do myself and loves me for who I am, because there's someone like that out there for everyone. And I want you to have that, because everyone deserves it. So all I'm saying is just be careful and I wish you the best of luck with his and hopefully I'm wrong about it in the end. lol <3

Amen brotha

[iLLmaTic]

katoke fails again and again and again and again...endless cycle of fail

[hideo]

Espion, on 04 March 2010 - 10:10 PM, said:

He had a rough time growing up with his mother doing heroine and not knowing who his own father is

Not to sound unsympathetic, never knew who my father was, my mother did the drugs, put my sister and i in the trunk of a hatch back, as her one armed drunk b/f got into a car wreck. I got many stories. Then again, the man after my biological father ran off, took us away from her by the time I was 6. Either way, my sister is warped in the head, and I still have some probs, but I believe in mind over any problem. He must have had some warped out therapist. =/

[Spoonykipper]

Aleera, on 04 March 2010 - 11:48 PM, said:

I'm still the hopeless romantic type who believes I can find the girl of my dreams who is perfect for me, that understands me better than I do myself and loves me for who I am, because there's someone like that out there for everyone. And I want you to have that, because everyone deserves it. So all I'm saying is just be careful and I wish you the best of luck with his and hopefully I'm wrong about it in the end. lol <3

Well put sir!

[Saniiro]

Espion, on 04 March 2010 - 10:10 PM, said:

He isn't mooching. :C If anything he's pushing to move out by in October. And we don't have any financial problems. Military is out of the question, sadly. He wanted to join the Navy or the Marines if he could but a therapist fucked that up for him. :/ He had a rough time growing up with his mother doing heroine and not knowing who his own father is, there was quite a bit of arguing from what he's told me and a bunch of other things. His therapist decided to say he was suicidal and homicidal when he hasn't really had a serious thought about either of the two. Then she also put down that he was on anti-depressants when he never has been prescribed them. c_c So he's still upset about that fact, he really wanted to join the military.
He's really a good guy, he keeps me in line. xD I'd probably still be fat and sitting at the computer daily if I never met that bitch of a room mate that I had and her husband. Mr. Hubbums was the room mate's husband's best friend, so that's how we ended up meeting. He was dating some prego girl that he didn't really love, mostly because the kid wasn't his. So I stole him away. *-*

Key word: "Serious"

Therapists for the military have a heavy responsibility to identify potential crazies (not saying your dude is crazy, mind you) and stop them from getting in. If people with perfectly happy pasts could end up going insane because of things they experienced in the military, I'm pretty sure it could happen to someone with a rough past.

[Metticus]

I'm happy for you. But dont' be scared to end things if everything goes down the drain. My sister has been devoreced 3 times....
While I'm at it let me tell you about my sister Maria:

Marrage 1: Maria married a guy who ended up being a drug dealer, after fathering his child he spent about 8 years in prison. Nice guy though, just bad real bad decisions.

Marrage 2: Maria married a guy from Mexico who turned out was already married and had a kid(in Mexico) who just married my sister to get American Citizenship....

Marrage 3: While Maria was working in the state penitentiary, she met a prison convict and married the guy, to me it's like a step backwords from marrage #1, but she ends up leaving him cause he beat her ass.

But none of this really has anything to do with the thread, just something to think about.

[Aleera]

Is your sister still married? If not, is she hot?

[Espion]

Hot sisters are nice.

[Doodlebug]

Welp, goodluck



Hey... Hey... lee.... you know what this whole things reminds me of?

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[Aleera]

It reminds you that I HAVE A GLANDULAR PROBLEM?!? ; ; WHY DID YOU HAVE TO BRING THAT UP??!






/plop

[Doodlebug]

Rai sent me this video

Also reminds me of this thread LOL

[Katoke]

Oh fu all. All I saw was a wall of text and don't remember seeing because it wasn't his there ;_ ;

[Teh_Walrus]

lol SAT scores