pathwriter, on 16 February 2011 - 05:12 PM, said:
You know, I'm glad to see the level caps removed from those missions just because it was obnoxious (though, honestly, not so difficult that I didn't easily find ways to deal with them). Pulling out the "You're all elitist jerks" card because we've pointed out that these were not terribly difficult fights, though, is what is earning you a lot of ire, Palomaru, especially when you noted how long that guy had been desperate for help. Did you need to drop your alliance to help him? No. But you could have asked if anyone in your LS was free or you could've spent a few minutes in /tell explaining to him either how to solo it or where to go on YouTube/FFXIclopedia to find some helpful information. I did that all the time when I saw someone shouting for help while I was engaged in something else.
Funny thing, really... much as Banter gets right up my nose and much as I piss people off with my sandpaper personality, we're probably the first people to actually answer questions and help others out. Most people are all talk and no action when it comes to how a community ought to operate. It's just as well that I do things simply because I want to, 'cause the amount of times I've helped LS members and random people with certain tedious things far outweighs the number of times I've gotten help from someone whom I don't know in real life. It reached a point where I'd sooner text my friend at work to help me out later that evening than waste my breath trying to find assistance anywhere else because people in Whitegate/Jeuno were far too engaged in trading lolcat pictures and hoping that someone would list a Speed Belt for 11 gil.
I really don't see how I'm in the wrong. People are calling others (and they have been since the level cap removal was announced several weeks ago) who had trouble with the 2-3 fight either lazy, crappy, or noobish which is just crap, plain and simple. What if they didn't have a job at 25+ that could sleep and thats what they felt comfortable with for this fight(I know theres many ways to solo the fight at 25 but sleeping is safest), what if they kept getting unlucky with petrify or curse when trying to solo and gave up after several deaths, what if they just couldn't quite solo it (a little lack of skill, considering its a level 25 cap, I don't see the harm in not being amazing at playing a level 25 job). Its not an easily soloable fight is all I'm trying to say. It is a soloable fight, but I wouldn't say someones a bad player if they can't solo the 2-3 dragon, which seems to be what a lot of people are saying (I wouldn't even say the player is at fault). And they aren't lazy if they can't get a friend or two to help them (as what my example was trying to point out). If this isn't quite true and you guys didn't quite mean it like that, then I'm sorry, my "elitist jerk" tone was be too harsh then.
And funny you should actually mention that path. I actually did try to help him a little, I suggested strategies on ffxiclopedia for solo, he was an xbox player and didn't have access to a computer (that or he didn't want to use the computer, can't exactly remember lol) and as I recall, his job selection was extremely limited. I act like I'm being a bit too defensive here, but I've actually been playing this game since the NA release (with many breaks of course lol) and I've helped countless people throughout the years on both pandemonium and now asura. And I recall one particular incident that I remember a few months ago and use it as an example and all of a sudden my monk mentor (a bit corny I know, but like 5 years ago you were a
huge help lol) is calling me out

. Its just frustrating because I know the ratio of me helping others on ffxi and others helping me like 50:1. Probably shouldn't bother me so much though, not really playing ffxi much anymore and I just lurk on KI (if only I know why lol).